TECH PEOPLE LEADERSHIP NEWSLETTER
A weekly newsletter of curated links giving help, advice and opinion to leaders in teh tech industry.
THE ARCHIVE
FEEDBACK
13 Questions to Get More Feedback From Your Team - Programming Leadership - Medium
Easy read, useful stuff. Exactly what it says - ways to start the “I want feedback” conversation with your team.
Disrupting Bias in Feedback — Jill Wetzler
A cool, practical post outlining specific ways to notice, and then disrupt our own biases when giving feedback. Great piece.
MEETINGS
This is long, but very worthwhile. Explains why feedback is so hard to give, and includes recommendations for overcoming the deep, human barriers that inevitably exist.
“Feedback conversations, as they exist today, activate this social threat response. In West and Thorson’s study, participants’ heart rates jumped as much as 50 percent during feedback conversations” Yikes.
“Clarity and certainty are not the same thing. Sometimes being certain keeps you from being clear because you are operating out of closed-minded assumptions instead of critical facts. Secondly, just because you have a lack of clarity does not mean you have workplace drama, but I can guarantee that, if you have drama, there is a lack of clarity at the root”
Pretty wild article. Wasn’t sure what to think in the end. Important reading.
“We found that even among similarly high-performing workers, appearing self-confident did not translate into influence equally for men and women… Moreover, women’s self-reported confidence did not correlate with how confident these women appeared to others.”
A pretty nice use of Quantum mechanics as an analogy for setting up management structures. Yes, people are not mechanical entities: “Setting up your team the way you would set up a machine can give you a ton of leverage — as long as you realize how complicated and unpredictable the people in that machine can be”
Try and ignore the formatting and the giant ad for a book at the top. This is very well worth a read.
“Dignity is something we are born with—our inherent value and worth. We don’t have to do anything to have dignity. Every human being deserves to be treated with dignity, no matter what they do. Respect, on the other hand, has to be earned.”